
Counselling and coaching.
Ethical non-monogamy specialists.
Are you practising an alternate relationship style and finding it challenging? Or are you curious about trying it (or just finding out more)? Do you have specific questions or issues to work out? If so, non-monogamy specific counselling and coaching might be for you.Whether you're polyamorous, ethically/consensually non-monogamous (ENM/CNM), swinging, a relationship anarchist or wanting to learn more, having a therapist who understands the unique challenges can make all the difference. We are experienced Psychologists who specialise in non-monogamy. We are queer-friendly, neuro-divergent-friendly, kink-friendly...and we are just plain friendly!
Individual counselling & coachingOne on one online sessions to help individuals who are curious, struggling, or just want to improve their skills.
Relationship counselling and coachingFor couples, throuples, or any group of people who have specific questions or issues to resolve, or who want to enhance their relationships.
Non-monogamy focussed workshopsInformation and skills workshops to tackle common non-monogamy issues and to flourish.Coming soon
We are psychologists who are ourselves ethically non-monogamous. We are passionate about helping others to do non-traditional relationships successfully. We...Get in touch!

CECILIA GREEN
(she/her)
I am a psychologist with over 25 years counselling experience. I am passionate about empowering people to consciously choose their preferred relationship structures, and to help them develop the skills necessary to successfully navigate the challenges that come with non-traditional choices.I work from a person centered, affirming approach, utilising evidence based techniques drawn from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Gestalt, Imago Therapy, attachment based therapy and psychodynamic therapy.Certificate in Sex Therapy Practice, live authentic, connected lives.
Swedish born, Cecilia moved to Australia when young.
ELLIOT WOOD
CONNECTIONConnection is at the core of the human experience. Nothing else has the same power to nurture us, and research shows that quality relationships are the best predictor of a long and healthy life. But feeling connected can be difficult, especially with the added demands of non-monogamy.
Our aim is to help you strengthen the connections that are important to you, ensuring your relationships are built on a solid foundation of trust, understanding, and discovery.
CURIOSITYCuriosity is vital in alternate relationship styles as it encourages open-mindedness and continuous learning. By staying curious, partners can better understand each other's needs, explore new dynamics, and adapt to changes, fostering deeper connections and growth within the relationship.We approach each session with curiosity and a non-judgmental attitude, ensuring a safe and supportive environment for you to explore and embrace your unique relationship style.
AUTHENTICITYAuthenticity isn't easy, but it's essential for fulfilling and sustainable relationships. It means being true to yourself and openly communicating your desires and boundaries, even when this is difficult. This honesty builds trust, deepens connections, and ensures all partners are aligned.As relationship therapists, we help you embrace your authentic self and navigate your chosen relationship style with empathy and understanding.
A free initial chat is a good place to start for most people
Initial ChatA free 15 minute call to get to know each other and see how we can best help you.FREE
50 minute sessionA standard therapy or coaching session, available for individuals, couples, thruples, or more.$250
90 minute sessionAn extended session, often ideal when more than 2 people are attending.$350
Fee and cancellation policy available upon request
Resources and links to relevant websites, books, podcasts, etc coming soon.
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Is polyamory all about the sex?
For many, but not all people, sex and intimacy are an important part of their relationships, however polyamory is about a lot more. Connection, communication, curiosity, are a few of the things people are seeking. Some poly people are also asexual, meaning they have little or no interest in sex, however polyamory means they can have fulfilling relationships with people who can have sexual needs met by other people.What's the difference between Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) and Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM)
ENM has been used widely for years, however some people prefer the term CNM as exactly what is ethical can be hard to define. We still feel that a core goal of this lifestyle is to be ethical, so still tend to use ENM, but the terms are reasonably interchangeable.Why don't you provide services to people in Victoria?
The polyamorous/non-monogamous community in Melbourne is large, but also tight knit. Good therapeutic boundaries mean not having social relationships with clients, and the easiest way to ensure this doesn't occur is to avoid providing services to people who live in the same place.
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